In the dating game, moments are extremely important when trying to pick up women. A moment can elicit an emotion or a memory. What you do at any given moment can be the difference between moving the interaction where you want it (attraction) and losing out. Behavior that lacks confidence within one split second can be the difference between taking her home and having her make the international “Get me out of here!” sign to her girlfriends in a bar or club.
What you do in the first moments of an interaction can set the tone and course for the relationship pretty much forever.
Men with natural game have the ability to come up with responses to any situation that build attraction. They know how to project confidence and a Loveable Jerkass personality with everything they say.
More often than not, most of us do not have this ingrained ability. The ones who do are definitely not reading this section of the site.
Let me ask you a question. If a gorgeous blonde with thick sensuous lips, legs that went for miles, and a perfect body walked into an elevator with you, do you KNOW what you’d say?
If you hesitate and try to think something up, chances are you’re already dead in the water. Women have an extremely heightened radar for wussiness.
Therefore, and I can’t emphasize this enough, you need to plan for these situations in advance. Have a confident/Loveable Jerkass/Socially Intelligent conversation starter ready. This applies to all situations when interacting with a girl. Have an answer or course of action prepared for any given situation or test she throws your way. I realize this is work, and that we men have a tendency to be horribly lazy bastards, but, as with anything, you get what you put in.
A lot of this has to do with the way you react to situations. You don’t need some sort of amazingly witty pickup line, but you do need to start off the interaction confidently and without hesitation or visible fear.
Till next time, gentlemen.